Memorials pay respect to the departed, but they are really for the living – they provide a sense of place and leave a tangible record of a loved life. Memories are precious and it is appropriate to share them with future generations. They can play an important role in the grieving process by forming a link between the past, the present and the future.

When someone dies many and varied issues can arise. One of the most fundamental is how the deceased should be remembered after the funeral service has been conducted. At such an emotionally charged time, it’s a significant decision which should not be made in haste, without due consideration to the significant consequences that may arise. Choosing a place with a permanent memorial where family and friends can visit is something worth considering for a number of very important reasons. A memorial is a focus for reflection and a permanent marker for a life lived where family and friends and future generations can come to remembers1 and pay their respects to their heritage.

A memorial showcases the area’s peaceful natural beauty and identity. For those who live or have lived locally, the environment is a part of them and can remain so. A memorial is as personal as you desire it to be. There are many options available to help capture the spirit of each individual. A memorial can reflect cultural and religious integrity.

A memorial is a place to commemorate a life. As time passes, the significance of key dates (anniversaries, birthdays, religious days) grows, and so too does the symbolic importance of a memorial.

Memorial choices have evolved in recent years. Cemeteries and crematoria offer a wide range of settings and products to reflect the personality, culture and faith suited to each individual.

Memorials provide a place to remember.

(The Cemeteries and Crematoria Association of NSW would like to thank Phoenix Foundry for assisting with the compilation of this article.)